money – Traveling Wives Club https://travelingwivesclub.com Making connections while navigating life on the road. Fri, 29 Jan 2021 14:45:32 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.1 https://travelingwivesclub.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/02/cropped-TWCfavicon-32x32.png money – Traveling Wives Club https://travelingwivesclub.com 32 32 Worried about the future of pipelines https://travelingwivesclub.com/worried-about-the-future-of-pipelines/ https://travelingwivesclub.com/worried-about-the-future-of-pipelines/#respond Wed, 27 Jan 2021 17:13:29 +0000 https://travelingwivesclub.com/?p=527 Well, 2021 doesn’t seem to be any better than where 2020 left most of us.  We have a new President, which was a victory for many but a gut punch for those working in the gas and oil fields.  On his first day, President Biden chose to sign an Executive Order putting a stop to the permits for the Keystone XL pipeline.  This decision will impact thousands of jobs associated with the construction of the pipeline as well as other opportunities associated according to TC Energy.  Leaving a lot of us worried about the future of pipelines.

 

This is beyond frustrating to many, including us.  We were hoping to get on in the spring but will have to see what else he can find, depending on whether or not this affects other jobs as well.  One of my biggest frustrations with this line of work is trying to budget for temporary work.  You just never know when you will get on a job or how long that job will last.

 

It’s easy to get wrapped up in the frustration of it all.  Why would they want to cut so many jobs?  How are we supposed to pay our bills?  Don’t they understand that it will take years to get to a greener earth?  I’m all for saving the planet but until we get our consumption of petroleum-based products under control there is not going to be a time when we don’t need oil and gas.

 

In my opinion, there are two ways to go about our current situation…

  1. We can sit around and wait for another job.  Which we’ve done many times.  Sometimes it pans out and other times, it drains that bank account.
  2. Or we can get proactive and do something about it.

 

What we are working on

 

For us, we have learned to focus on option #2.  That often means my husband is calling his contacts and I’m asking in the pipeline community for any leads.  The pipeline community is a tight-knit group.  I am always seeing ways that we support our brothers and sisters.  Whether it be a lead on a job, helping with kids, finding resources, or donating time/money to someone in need, y’all got each other’s backs.  We always find a way to get through.

 

Looking at ways to save money and ways to bring other income in so that our bank account doesn’t take such a big hit can be helpful.  That could be dialing in your budget or starting a side hustle.  Do we really need cable and Netflix?  What about all those Target runs or stops at the coffee shop?  

 

I know for me, budgeting has always been an issue.  Whether it was because we never really talked about money growing up or because I liked getting what I wanted when I wanted.  Whenever I searched for budgeting help/advice it was hard to find anything that addressed my husband’s line of work.  How do I spread our income over 12 months?  What if there is a layoff?  Finding information to help address these issues was often difficult or missing the mark.

 

I finally decided to do something about it! 

 

I created my own budget worksheet that can help work through some of the questions we face.  And I want to give it to y’all for FREE!

FREE budget worksheet

 

Ladies, I know we can get bored just hanging at the camper/hotel/apartment.  What if you took some of that time and started a side hustle to bring in some extra cash?  Do you love creating, writing, or just helping people?  Think about those skills and start something!  I’ve started my own Virtual Assistant business, blog, and soon a book!  Check out my blog post about side hustles here.

 

Maybe you’re even ready to call it quits and start that business you’ve been dreaming about.  My husband is always dreaming up ways to make money once he is ready to hang up his boots.  Is there a business idea that you’ve been throwing around?  Talking about “when the time is right”?  What if now is that time?

 

I know a lot of these things won’t bring instant money but we have to make sure we are looking ahead.  Preparing and planning for those “what if” moments.  I sure hope that our pipeliners will be able to continue doing the work that they love.  That they can continue to contribute to the communities that they pass through.  And that the country will see them as the hard-working individuals that they are, sacrificing time away from their families.  Giving to the local communities, supporting their economies, and building a way for the rest of the country to have access to a (currently) necessary resource.

 

In the meantime, be kind to one another.  Share resources, information, job leads, whatever you can to help out.  Contact your local union, your state representative, and anyone else that can help.

 

Resources

Click here to help show your support for Keystone XL

Search for local jobs through Indeed.com (not affiliated)

Want to start your own Virtual Assistant business? Click here

No income budget help, click here

 

Thanks for reading!

 

Kate

 

 

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You should be here…the bittersweet side of a traveling family https://travelingwivesclub.com/you-should-be-here-the-bittersweet-side-of-a-traveling-family/ https://travelingwivesclub.com/you-should-be-here-the-bittersweet-side-of-a-traveling-family/#comments Wed, 28 Aug 2019 11:00:43 +0000 https://travelingwivesclub.com/?p=283  

Today is our son’s first day of Kindergarten and I am sitting here crying like a baby.

I’m doing it for all the typical reasons;

  • He’s growing so fast
  • His first experience of school
  • He was nervous (and so am I)

 

But one of the biggest reasons I’m sitting here is because my husband isn’t.  He should be here.  He is missing out on these big occasions.

 

No, he is not dead. No, he is not in the military.

 

He has something else that keeps him away…the pipeline.

 

Have you heard of it? Probably just the protests, right? A topic for another time.

 

In case you have not heard of it…our country is full of pipelines that run under and above the ground. They crisscross our nation like the veins in our body, providing a supply of liquid and gas that our country depends on.

 

They help transport liquid petroleum and natural gas to help create products we use EVERY DAY like our cell phones, TVs, fuel for our cars, heat to our homes, etc.   You can read about pipelines here.

Another story, another time.

 

Let’s get back to our story…

 

The kids and I decided to come back about a week before so I had time to get the school supplies from the list, figure out timing (for driving), plan out lunches (I’m failing here) and overall scheduling.

 

We also wanted to give our son a bit of time to adjust back home before entering a new situation.  To have time to run around and enjoy summer at the big house.  To get used to sleeping in a new bed and place.

 

It is such an exciting time and yet so hard on our family.

 

For an undetermined amount of time we will be apart from my husband, their daddy.  He is staying back to work, to provide for our family. Unless he gets laid off soon, we most likely won’t see him until around Thanksgiving break.  He is about 8 hours away and that is just too hard on two littles for a weekend trip.

 

This is a job that we chose before we had children.  My husband has worked so hard to get where he is and has become damn good at what he does. As a family we support him!  We know it will be hard and the visits will not come often enough but it is a short-term game at this point.

 

Although, this was a choice we made, it doesn’t make it any easier.

 

The kids and I get to be back in our home.  Making new friends and enjoying our new town.  We get to check out our festivals, sports and whatever else we can find.  We have all these things to keep us busy along with navigating school and all the things that come along with daily life.

 

While it can be fun doing these things, it is also bittersweet.

 

It’s hard for me to not think about the fact that he will miss out on different activities or the excitement of making a new friend.  He will miss out on the bedtime routine, the homework and even simple things like pickup and drop-off.

 

He doesn’t get to hold our sons hand at the dentist when he is scared.

He doesn’t get to wipe our daughters tears away when she gets hurt.

But he wants to.

 

He doesn’t get to teach them how to ride bikes.

He doesn’t get to snuggle with them every night.

But he wants to.

 

I often don’t send him as many pictures when we are apart.  Not because I don’t think that he should see them.  I worry about how it will affect him.  I don’t want him to miss them more than he already does but I don’t want him to miss out either.

 

We know there are options.

Trust me when I say that we have talked about a lot of them.  Our minds have changed several times already.  We know there are options for schooling.  Homeschooling or to just change schools whenever we moved is an option.

I know many families that are doing these things successfully and it works for them.  But each of us is different.  We feel this is what are family needs right now.

 

We also know there is always a way to make something work.  So, for now we are finding ways to make being apart work for our family. Technology certainly helps.  FaceTime is often used as signal allows.

Our family talks daily, even if it is only for a few minutes.  We keep the kids informed on what is happening and encourage them to be engaged in the conversation.

 

 

Please don’t mistake this post as looking for sympathy.

 

We know this is the path that we have chosen.  We have a plan and right now, this separation, this difficult situation is a part of that plan.

 

This post is more for those that are also experiencing this same situation.  I just want you to know that you are not alone.  There are others going through separation just like you.

It may not be for the same reasons but they know the heartache you feel.  The questions you have unanswered.  They have family and friends that just don’t understand.

 

There are others that loved this lifestyle but now want it to change so desperately.  Some are trapped financially and trying to figure a way out.  Others just love this work and are not ready to walk away from it.

 

Whatever the situation, there are others out there that are negotiating similar situations.  Trying to do the best for their family.

 

This post is for you. I hope you know that there are others out there, experiencing similar situations with our travel lifestyle. You are not alone.

 

Ways to help ease the separation…

  • FaceTime, Skype, Zoom are great tools to have so that you can have a sense of connection.  They help by providing you with video calls.  You get to see each other while you chat.  We do this daily as long as he has a decent signal.
  • Talk.  I’m mean really talk.  Separation makes things seem worse than they are sometimes.  You need to be able to share what you are feeling so things don’t get mixed up or lost in translation.
  • Put yourself in their “shoes”.  Try to see things from the other person’s point of view.  Both parties are struggling with different things when separated.  My husband is so good at this, I need to do better.  It’s easy to get wrapped up in whatever we are dealing with that we don’t always stop to see what they are going through also.
  • Make time for visits as often as possible.  Obviously this varies on distance and schedules but if you can make something work, DO IT!
  • Find support.  Talk to people that can relate or are at least willing to listen.  If you need help finding places for support, check out my post about some resources here.
  • If you don’t like the situation, make a plan to change it!

 

Young boy in front of home, ready for school
Our little man’s first day!

 

If you can relate and want to share, I would love to hear from you!  Drop a comment below!

 

As always, thanks for reading!

Kate

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7 Unique gift ideas for the “hard to buy for” Father https://travelingwivesclub.com/7-unique-gift-ideas-for-the-hard-to-buy-for-father/ https://travelingwivesclub.com/7-unique-gift-ideas-for-the-hard-to-buy-for-father/#respond Wed, 12 Jun 2019 11:00:27 +0000 https://travelingwivesclub.com/?p=234 It’s almost Father’s Day! If your husband is much like mine, falling under the “hard to buy for” father group, then you find yourself wondering what the heck to get him for Father’s Day (or any special occasion really).

That’s why I wanted to share my 7 unique gift ideas for the “hard to buy for” father on Father’s Day!

 

This category of men tend to

buy what they want, when they want it and

respond with, “I don’t need anything” when asked for ideas

 

This is great for every ordinary day but so frustrating for special occasions!

 

I grew up in a gift giving family so it feels so strange not to give something on a special occasion.  I find myself scrambling last minute to get something together.

 

So, what do you get the guy that can get himself anything?  Keep reading to see my 7 unique gift ideas for the “hard to buy for” father

 

Experiences

Being that we travel often and usually have limited space for storing stuff, a great gift idea would be an experience.  I’m thinking like race car driving, wine/beer tasting, or an evening out to a concert or comedy club in the closest area that offers such an event.  Groupon is a great resource for finding ideas like this.

I know most only get Saturday evening free and time to rest on Sunday so try to plan it around those days.  If that is not a possibility look at something in the future, hopefully during a layoff.  Of course, check to see if there is a refund policy and/or a date exchange in case something comes up and he cannot attend.

 

Something pipeline related

Have something pipeline related or job related made just for him.

There are a ton of shops selling items online that can create something unique.

I love shopping in the FB groups as well as on Etsy to find things like T-shirts, wallets, mugs, wall hangings, etc.  Check out Home Businesses of the Pipeline on FB or ask in one of the groups to see if someone makes something you are looking for as a gift.

7 unique gifts for Father's Day

Sentimental

Sentimental gifts like a nice card, a love letter, a back rub or helping to create a gift with the kiddos are always a nice gift.  These gifts generally show more expression of your love because of the time and/or effort it took to put together.

 

Unique on Etsy, Uncommon Goods

I like to try to find unique gifts to give.  Some of my favorites are found on Etsy, Uncommon Goods or Amazon.

One of my favorite gifts (his too) was a big photo of our first dog together that was made up of smaller pictures of us.  I had it matted and framed.  He was so surprised and it turned out great!!

 

Kid’s gifts

Skip something from you and head right to the motherland of gift giving ideas, Pinterest!

Pinterest is my best friend when it comes to finding crafty ideas for celebrations like Father’s Day! I usually have my kids make a card or something on canvas to give to the man who can get anything for himself.

Nothing says “we love you Daddy” like a few handprints and some sweet words from the kids.

If you have older kids, another option might be to have them fill out something sentimental like this book you can find on Amazon.

 

A trip

Taking a trip is always a nice gift too!  I know we travel a lot but going somewhere because you want to is way different than going because your job tells you to.  Find something close by for a Saturday night away or again, plan something for in the future.

Sometimes just a night in a hotel can be relaxing!  With kids, we usually opt for a nice place with a pool.

If you need more tips or ideas for finding things to do near you, check out my post here.

7 gift ideas for Father's Day

Donate or Save

If gifting really isn’t your or his thing why not donate the money you would have spent.  You can choose a charity that is close to his heart or has some meaning to either of you.  Another option is to donate to yourself!  Put it in your savings account, vacation fund or pay on a bill!!

 

Whether you choose from the 7 unique gift ideas for the “hard to buy for” father or come up with something completely different, the idea of the day is to show your love and appreciation.  Enjoy your time together and try not to sweat the gift giving.

 

As always, thanks for reading!

 

Katie

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How to make money while traveling https://travelingwivesclub.com/how-to-make-money-while-traveling/ https://travelingwivesclub.com/how-to-make-money-while-traveling/#comments Wed, 22 May 2019 11:00:29 +0000 https://travelingwivesclub.com/?p=208 Are you bored to tears while your significant other is off to work?  Ready to make money while traveling?  Want new ways to meet other people?

 

Consider finding work while you travel.

 

Traveling with your significant other can be filled with fun and new adventures but it can also get REAL boring and lonely too.

 

We all have different reasons for wanting to make money while traveling…maybe it is

  • a creative outlet
  • extra income
  • meet others
  • need more than being a stay at home mom (me raising my hand!)
  • security in case something happens

 

Whatever the reason, there are options, EVEN while traveling.

 

 

Seasonal jobs

Most large corporations as well as some small businesses will often look for seasonal help.  That season depends on their industry. Sometimes it is summer help for outdoor companies or businesses related to warmer temps.  Other times it is focused more around the holidays, usually end of October to January.  This type of work provides flexibility because it is temporary.

 

Nationwide companies

If you want something steadier, look for nationwide companies that may allow you to transfer as you change locations.  For part of my time with Con-way Freight (now XPO Logistics), I was able to transfer to different terminals since they were a nationwide company.

 

Work at home

This type of work provides the ultimate flexibility because it can go wherever you go!  In most cases you are the boss as well so there is no checking to make sure you can transfer your work.

 

  • MLMs

MLMs often get a bad rap.  They get called names like pyramid and Ponzi schemes but their structure is very similar to corporate America.  You have a president, then VPs, then Managers, then workers.  If you drew it out it would look much like a pyramid! There are a variety of different industries/products out there that involve MLMs.  Find one that fits your interests!

  • Create something

Maybe you are a creative person.  Do you love to craft?  Have you designed something unique or improved on something already out there?   You could start an online store and sell what you make.  Depending on what it is you are creating, will determine how easily you could run the business on the road.

  • Virtual assistants

Do you have administrative or specialized skills, a computer, phone and time to complete the tasks?  Do you enjoy helping others get the job done?  You could sign up to be a VA for online companies or better yet, start your own VA business!

make money while traveling

 

 

  • Transcriptionist

Transcription is another great option for working from home.  You need fast typing skills, a computer and an ability to pick up words from a variety of people.  Most people think of medical transcription in this category but there are many other types. Check out Rev.com for a listing of current jobs as well as opportunities to do captions for TV programming.

  • Recruiting

If you are detail oriented, enjoy working, helping and talking with people then consider recruiting.  Recruiters get to help others find jobs.  Although many companies require a degree for this position you do have the option of creating your own freelance business.

  • Customer Service

People skills are a must for this type of work!  A good portion of this position is done from a phone and/or email.  So, as long as you have good signal and enjoy talking to people this could be a great fit for you!

  • Writer

Do what I do, share your thoughts with others!  You could write a book or blog, depending on your goals around writing. Both formats have the potential to bring in income and you definitely have the flexibility of working from anywhere. If this interests you, feel free to message me about any questions you have.  Check out the course that got me started here

 

Help others

Not all significant others travel with their Pipeliner.  We all know that they put in long hours most days and could use an extra hand.  If you are looking to make money while traveling, consider offering some of the following services to help out the other Pipeliners on the job;

  • Pet sitter
  • Baby sitter
  • Laundry or cleaning
  • Grocery shopping
  • Running errands

 

Improve your skills

This option is not great on a resume if repeated over a long period but it does get you out of your small living space and meet others!  If you choose to, look for places you could get a discount like your favorite retail store. You could also find your favorite coffee shop or bookstore.  Another idea is to think of a new skill you would like to learn or improve on and try a place that offers it.

make money while traveling

Work with significant other/on pipeline

Another option is to also work on the road.  This could be a bit more difficult if you have children only because of the added need for childcare if you both are out of the home for long hours.  If you can make it work then there are a few options;

  • Many women opt to be their significant other’s helper (welders)
  • Laborer
  • Safety
  • X-ray teams
  • Office staff

Some choose to work directly with their significant other while others choose to work on a different crew.  Take in the factors of needing childcare, amount of time spent with each other and the type of work to help you decide if this would be a good fit for you and your family.

 

As I mentioned before, there are a variety of reasons to take up employment while traveling.

Here are my reasons…

In the 12 years we have been traveling together I have held a couple of the jobs above and also spent about 2.5 years at home while he traveled.

 

I worked at a tanning salon because I wanted to meet others.

 

We needed the extra income so, I took a job at Con-way and stayed home for 2.5 years and then transferred terminal to terminal.  His job was not very stable at the time (long lay-offs) and we had acquired too much debt.

 

I worked my first MLM because of pregnancy hormones and boredom.

 

My second MLM was started to get healthy and have extra income.

 

My current endeavors have been started to begin an exit strategy from this line of work.  Our kids will be starting school and we have chosen to be stationary for them.  This means our family will be split until we can get my husband off the road.

 

 

If you decide to seek employment, I encourage you to find something that you have an interest in and do enjoy.  Remember that it is ok to try something, not like it and then try something different. Don’t trap yourself in a job that makes you unhappy.

 

Please feel free to comment or send a message to me with any questions about working on the road.

If you are currently working or thinking about working on the road comment below.  I’d love to hear what you are doing!

 

If you are looking for other ways to beat the isolation, check out my post here.

 

As always, thanks for reading!

 

Katie

 

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10 Questions To Consider Before Buying An RV https://travelingwivesclub.com/10-questions-to-consider-before-buying-an-rv/ https://travelingwivesclub.com/10-questions-to-consider-before-buying-an-rv/#respond Wed, 15 May 2019 11:00:22 +0000 https://travelingwivesclub.com/?p=199 Are you tired of packing in and out of hotels?  Ready to have something that feels more like home while you travel?

 

How about an RV?! Sounds simple enough, right?  It can be but first check out these 10 questions to consider before buying an RV.

Continue reading to find out what those questions are and how it will affect your decision.

 

 

Questions to consider before buying an RV

 

10 questions to consider before buying an RV

 

 

1.What type of RV should I get?

There are a variety of different types of RVs to choose from; The motorhome which allows you to drive and live in the same space.  These can also be broken down into Class A, Class B, and Class C.

There are travel trailers that are pulled behind a vehicle attached to a hitch at the bumper.

Fifth wheels are pulled behind a pickup truck and attached at a hitch in the bed of the truck.

Finally, a few other types, like the van and bus conversions, not as popular but still great options depending on your situation.

 

Learn more about the different types of RVs here, https://www.thorindustries.com/rv-types

 

2.Will you be staying in it full time?

If you plan on staying in your trailer for the majority of the year there are a few features you may want to consider.

The top 2, in my opinion, being a bigger fridge and storage.  These two are my necessities in a trailer that we will spend a lot of time in.

I am not a big fan of going to the grocery store every couple of days so I like to have more fridge space.  Plus, my two littles eat like they are teenagers already!!

 

Lots of storage is great for being able to rotate your clothing in seasons as well as toys if you have kids.

Having lots of storage inside and out means you can bring a few more of your favorite things and also have space to store the tools and necessary RV items.

Our current camper has the most storage I have seen in a fifth wheel to date.  We found this one in 2017.  It is a Grand Design Solitude 375RES.  It has a middle kitchen and elevated bedroom in the front and elevated living in the back.

In the kitchen, there is a pantry as well as wall and bottom cabinets.  The elevated living room in the back allows for more basement storage with a slide-out tray in the middle.  Seriously, SO much storage!!!

 

3.Will you be traveling to cold climates?

If you think you might be spending lots of time in colder climates you may want to check out the insulation packages for the trailers.

Many claim to be 4 seasons but I can tell you from experience that our 2007 Forest River Flagstaff with the rear kitchen was NOT!

It was our first job in the camper in northern Missouri.  We had bought the 4-season camper because we were unsure of where we would be.

I believe it was November. It had gotten pretty cold, quickly. After the first real cold night we had (maybe high 20s) we woke up the next morning with our pillows frozen to the walls!

In the camping industries defense, most are meant just for a weekend or a week or two trips and not long term.  So, when they say 4 seasons you could handle it in mild winters or for a weekend.

 

Questions to consider before buying an RV
Current truck and trailer

 

4.If considering a travel trailer or fifth wheel, how much can I tow?

This question really depends on the vehicle you have to tow.  Usually, a diesel dually will give you the most towing power but there are many full-size pick-ups that can handle the load as well.  Some travel trailers and fifth wheels can be pulled by a light truck (F150 or Chevy 1500).  This is what we initially started out with, an F150 pulling a Forest River Flagstaff lite(not in the picture below)

 

5.What is my budget?

RVs range anywhere from really small pull behinds around $20,000 brand new and go up to as much as $500,000+ if you look at motorhomes.

We have always bought brand new but I have to say that I would recommend buying used and an older model!  You lose SO much money buying brand new.  There are plenty of trailers out there that have been well taken care of or just didn’t sell the first year on the market.

Consider the time of year you buy as well if you are buying from a dealership.  It is better to buy towards the end of the camping season (Oct-Dec).  Most places aren’t wanting to have to store older inventory through the winter so they may discount them to get em’ sold!

 

After you answer the above, check out these questions to consider before buying an RV;

 

6.How often do we cook?

The kitchens in most trailers are not big. The industry is changing a bit in order to get a bigger kitchen but in doing that you sacrifice space elsewhere.

So, you have to be honest with yourself.  How often do you really cook?  Do you need that oven or can you make do with a stovetop and convection microwave?

Speaking of ovens, how awkward are those?!  Who wants to get down on the floor to light the pilot??  Am I right?

For those of you that do cook a majority of your meals, check out a few of these trailers…

https://www.rvingplanet.com/blog/top-5-best-fifth-wheels-with-front-kitchen/

 

I would also suggest

Grand Design Solitude 375RES (our current model)

Keystone Montana 3820FK

 

7.How much time do we plan to spend inside?

Think about how much time you will be spending inside your trailer.  Will you be spending most of it in the living room?  Kitchen?  Will everyone be there at the same time?

In most trailers, your biggest areas are your living room and bedroom.  If you will be inside a lot you will want more space that allows you to convert areas to function for multiple activities.  Think pull out couches or tables that convert to other sleeping areas.

Questions to consider before buying an RV

8.How much storage do we need?

If you are like a good majority of the country, you have a lot of stuff!  Moving into about 200 sq. ft is NOT going to accommodate ALL of that stuff.  But it can hold quite a bit.  So, make sure you take into consideration how much storage, both inside and outside, you will need to hold your items.

Need help deciding what you might want to have in your RV?  Check out my post here for some ideas.

 

9.How old are your kids, if you have them?  Don’t forget about those pets too!

Accommodating babies and toddlers is way different than accommodating teenagers.  They need privacy and take up more space physically.

Most people with children, no matter the age, opt for trailers that offer a bunkhouse and a half bath, a toy hauler (has a “garage”), or something with a mid-bunk room. This gives a bit more privacy to your kids and a place to close the door on clutter and some noise.

 

10.Will your family grow in the near future?

Same as above, think about how your family might look in the future and what kind of setup you may need. Not that you can’t sell your current and upgrade to a different layout but wouldn’t it be nice to have something that would last!

 

There you have it!  My initial 10 questions to consider before buying an RV.

 

I know there are a ton more factors to consider when buying an RV.  This was just a list to get your mind going and really think about what is important to your family for this purchase.

 

If you have already purchased, what was your biggest deciding factor in choosing your trailer?

 

 

As always, thanks for reading!

 

Katie

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Today I want to talk to you about 7 tips on how to travel with the pipeline.  I know from my experience that I had no idea what a pipeline was let alone what it meant to be part of the pipeline. A pipe what?!!  

Only later did I learn that the ditch that was dug through my parent’s property was a pipeline.  I used to play in that thing all the time (NOT recommended)!!!

*Disclaimer – this is not a full list of what can happen, just my own experiences and lessons

So, without further ado…what I have found it to be like while traveling with the pipeline

 

You will be away from family & friends

One of the hardest things for people when they begin traveling with the pipeline is being away from their family.  Everyone’s situation is different but I hear often how people wish that they could see their family more often or have them near.  Unfortunately, most of our families cannot just pack up and travel with us so we must learn how to cope with the separation.  A few things that have helped me over the years with the loneliness and separation from family are;

  • Take a few small trips throughout the year to visit my family.  They are often solo or with the kids but it is good for my soul to see my loved ones!  
  • If your family/friends are able to travel, set up some times that will work best for everyone.  Then you can take them on a tour of your local area!
  • If travel is not an option, increase your phone calls, do more FaceTime or Zoom calls so you can see them

 

Family & friends will not understand why

Those family members and friends that you miss so much may get distant.  They don’t understand this lifestyle and why anyone would want to do it. 

Your family and friends may not keep in touch as much as they used to with you.  However, when you are in town they will want you to visit them. They may not think about the fact that you have already traveled a great distance just to get home for a few short days. Try not to hold it against them.  

We have spent years exhausting ourselves during our trips home, running from one house to the next. Not because we felt bad but because we wanted to see EVERYONE.  

What has worked best for us is to set up a day or two out of our schedule.  Then try to gather as many on those days as possible, in one location, so we don’t have to continue to run around.  If anyone wants additional time then they can come to wherever you are staying, if you have room in your schedule. 

I know not all of us have a home of our own to go back to so if that is your situation plan a night out with everyone.  A neutral place can be nice since you are not responsible for set up or clean up!  If that won’t work, ask one of your family/friends to host at their place.

The number on the check will look great until you realize all the bills you have!

 

 

That number on those checks may look much bigger but they often have to stretch much further than what most think.  Those long hours add up to a great check but there are still so many other costs that you might not think of initially.  

Most of us on a job are away from our homes.  So, that means you may be paying, in addition to your bills to maintain a home in your home state, for;

 

 

  • A place to stay (campground + trailer payment, home/apt rental or hotel)
  • Food
  • Utilities
  • Equipment needed to do jobs (depending on position/company)
  • Union dues, if applicable
  • Savings for moving expenses for next job

Some families that work the pipeline choose to travel together while others have the spouse (with or without children) staying back in their home state.  In the latter situation you would have to double those expenses mentioned above.

 

It is not uncommon to change companies multiple times

Speaking of savings for moving expenses….it is not uncommon to change jobs often and abruptly.  A job can end sooner than planned due to the employer, the contractor or the employee’s actions.  We can’t forget about rain days either.  If the weather is bad enough to call for a rain day, those that are paid hourly, usually go without pay for those days.  

I would recommend always putting away money to get you to the next job or home, whichever the case.  Even better, save enough for a layoff because this work is never guaranteed.  Start with your moving expenses and then keep going until you can have enough saved to pay at least six months of bills.

I’m not sure if it is as common in non-union jobs but what I have seen in union jobs is that it is pretty common to change companies often.  It may be that the company fired you, you didn’t like the company or people who worked for that company or you were just tired of the area.  

No matter the reason, it is not always looked down on for leaving. Depending on the circumstance people go back to the company even when they left in the first place.

 

You can see a lot of this beautiful country if you are willing

One of the great perks is that you are able to see a lot of our country and sometimes other countries!! I have always loved travel and taken trips since I was a kid.  Some have never left their home state let alone their home town.  It can be scary but trust me, it is so worth it!  There are SO many different places and things to see. Each state offers something unique!

We try to take a trip that is within a few hours of the job location every month.  If we can do more, we will.  The internet is a great resource for finding things to do!  Check back here as my blog develops too for the places we have visited!!

 

Meet new people!

Traveling gives you the opportunity to meet new people and make new friends!  They may be other pipeline families that understand what it is like to travel full time or new local friends in each new town.  

Be prepared though too, that not all local areas will appreciate the pipeline being in town.  Pay attention to what information your company shares at the safety meetings about the locals and watch the local news or papers for what the “climate” may be like in your area.

 

 

 

 

 

 

You will gain packing and logistics skills you never knew you wanted

If you travel for a while with the pipeline you may want to add professional packer and mover to your resume!  LOL. The amount of moves that can happen in a year’s time is unbelievable to those outside of this lifestyle.  You may move once a year or even every couple of months depending on the different jobs going on and the pipeliner’s work relationship with the employers.  

In my opinion, packing a fifth wheel/travel trailer is way easier than packing up a rental apartment or home.  Less stuff to move or pack in boxes is definitely a bonus for those tiny homes on wheels!  Either one still can make you a very proficient mover.

 

You can plan all you want but the best plan is to have a back up

One last tip on what it means to travel with the pipeline (and this is a BIG one)!  You can plan all you want but your best plan is to have a backup and be flexible.  I can’t even count how many times my husband told me we would be going to X location and then two weeks or less we go to Y location instead.  Or you plan for a lay off and suddenly you are off to the next job.  

Luckily, not as often is the plan to go to a job and have that change to an extended lay off period.  This goes back to making sure you are socking some of that money away while there is work!! 

Family vacations and trips to family events may get cancelled or as a spouse you go alone.  If you are living separately, you may plan for your worker to be home at a certain time of the year but a project gets extended or a new one comes along.

You often just have to make the best of it and hope it works out better next time.

 

I’m sure there are a million other tips I am missing but those will have to come at a later date. I hope the ones I have shared have given you some insight!  If you are already traveling, pop on below and offer up some of your best tips!  If you have any questions, feel free to put them in the comments or send me an email or message on social media!

As always, thanks for reading!

Katie

 

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